2689 - Don’t Want to Sound Harsh? Soften the Blow with These Phrases

All Ears English · 17:22 · Sep 17, 2026

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  1. I know you're not a person who is normally harsh or blunt, but have you ever said something and immediately thought, "Oh, that sounded way too harsh"?

    我知道你通常不是一个说话刻薄或直率的人,但你有没有说过什么话,然后立刻觉得:“噢,那听起来太刻薄了”?

  2. Um, you know, if I'm, if I'm, I don't know.

    嗯,你知道,如果我,如果我,我不知道。

  3. But when you're learning a language, so for example, we were in Mexico and there was a World Cup game, and I wanted to ask there a little tukaría.

    但当你学习一门语言时,比如,我们在墨西哥,当时有一场世界杯比赛,我想问他们能不能把电视打开。

  4. I'm like, how would I say like, "Can you, like, please turn the TV on?

    我在想,我该怎么说,比如,“你能,比如,请把电视打开吗?”

  5. " All I knew how to say was like, "Turn the TV on, please." Like that probably sounds blunt.

    我当时只会说:“请把电视打开。”那听起来可能很生硬。

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